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We’ve been taught that love is something you feel. We’ve been taught that love is something you feel.
But love is also something you build… through labor, attention, effort, and care.

And here’s the part most women were never told:
you don’t just fall in love….you grow it. Often in proportion to what you’re doing to keep it alive.

If you’re the one remembering, managing, tending, translating, repairing, anticipating 
you’re not imagining the imbalance. You’re participating in what actually creates attachment.
And that changes everything.

Because then the question stops being: Does he love me?
and becomes: Who is doing the work that is creating the love?

If you want the full essay, comment LOVE and I’ll send it your way.
Most people encounter the playbook the same way. S Most people encounter the playbook the same way.
Study it.
Apply it.
Repeat it.
And when it doesn’t work,
the explanation becomes internal.
That explanation rarely gets examined.

Full breakdown in my essay. Comment history for the link🔗
You learned the formula. You tried to follow it. A You learned the formula.
You tried to follow it.
And still, something in you refused to fully lean in.

That often gets labeled as self-sabotage.
But what if it’s not?

What if your hesitation isn’t resistance…
but recognition?

Not every system is built for you to thrive in.

I unpack this more in my latest essay. Comment ‘history’ for the link 🔗
I keep getting so many compliments on these bangs I keep getting so many compliments on these bangs and I have to admit….These bangs were completely spontaneous🫢 but maybe that’s the beauty of it ✂️✨

Sometimes the best transformations happen when you stop overthinking and just go for it. The same applies in business, too. Growth usually starts the moment you stop waiting for the “perfect” time and trust yourself enough to make the move 🤍

If you’re ready to stop second-guessing yourself in business and start building with more confidence and clarity, my Substack is for you . Link to my essays in my bio💌
You learned the playbook. You tried to follow it. You learned the playbook.
You tried to follow it.

And then something in you… didn’t move.
That usually gets labeled self-sabotage.
But that assumes the system is neutral.

It might not be.

Some responses aren’t resistance.
They’re recognition.

I wrote more about this in my latest essay. 
Comment History and I’ll send you the link to read more📖
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