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Influences | Books

As Lianne Raymond says

These are my teachers, “known and unknown” (meaning they don’t necessarily know me nor would they necessarily agree with everything I say or do — and vice versa — but at critical points in my career, their work has fed me and become part of my flesh):

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Here are some of people + books who have

grown me:

Dr. Barbara Bryant Solomon:

Whose social and academic work on black empowerment appears to be  one of the first articulations of “empowerment”; her textbook has been my touchstone.

Mr. Beech:

Who was the first teacher in my life to show me the gap between our democratic goals as a country and the harsh, oppressive realities (I did not take it kindly and I’m still mortified at my 14 year old self).

Lianne Raymond:

For being a wise woman who knows things and has always sent resources my way and greeted me with compassion even when she doesn’t agree with my thinking or work.

Danielle LaPorte:

For seeing something in me nine years ago and championing me privately and publicly on before anyone knew of me or my work; and for materially helping me get started, online. I still get business because of her early support — and the significance of one woman using her influence and sharing her knowledge to help another woman develop a sovereign, sustainable livelihood can never be underestimated.

Dr. Lindo Bacon:

For their life-altering books, Health at Every Size and Body Respect (co-authored with Lucy Aphramor) and unending personal + professional generosity. HAES helped me stop hating myself and for this I am truly grateful.

Dr. Barbara Arniel:

For hiring me to be her research assistant while I was still an undergrad (!!) and mentoring me even before I realized that mentoring was a thing.

Toi Smith:

For her expert Online Business Management, her influence on the direction of my career, her unwavering friendship, and her capacity to be direct and say what needs to be said. That’s love and culture-making in action.

Gwynn Raimondi:

For opening me to the possibility of embodiment and helping me regulate my central nervous system on the daily and ESPECIALLY in times of trial (2017 was an unrelenting, 12 month inferno).

Jennifer McClanahan-Flint:

For coaching me into new culture making possibilities, for underlining the value in my analysis and the book I’m working on, forcing me to look at how many hours I *really* have available to work so that I finally saw the necessity of shifting my business model and raising my rates. What I learned with her emboldened me immeasurably in my culture making AND tripled my business income in a year.

Anna North:

For publishing me at Jezebel and Salon and being a possibility model in the professional world of words.

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Vicki Saunders, CV Harquail, Meghna Majmudar, Tanya Geisler, Pam Singh, Astarte Sands, Justine Musk, Dr. Danusia Malina-DerbenUna de Boer

For being points-of-inspiration, friends, or mentors along the way– in person and from afar.

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Thinkers, writers, speakers — culture makers! — whose ideas have formed me:

Chantal Mouffe, Rene Girard, Audre Lorde, bell hooks, Gloria Steinem, Ta-Nehisi Coates, Nassim Nicholas Taleb, Nancy Fraser, Carol Pateman, James Clear, Cal Newport, Tim Ferriss, Maya Angelou, Rebecca Solnit, Kate Harding, Marianne Kirby,  Roxane Gay, Dr. Kimberle Crenshaw, Tema Okun and Kenneth Jones,  adrienne maree brown, Sarah Schulman, Lindy West, Susan Faludi, Cedar Barstow.

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Can magazines be formative influences?

Because they have been:

Ms. Magazine and the early iteration of Sassy. But especially Ms. Magazine, my friend and feminist mentor since I was eleven years old.

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As a possibility model. I often say I was co-parented by Oprah and I’m only half-joking. I feel like I grew up with her show and it shaped me. Of course, like most of the “unknown teachers” on this list, she has no idea I exist. Yet.

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S. Lawrence, S. Kelly, A. Young, J. Neufeld and F. Rostant:

For their love across the years. 

Dr. David Doolin:

For his friendship at a pivotal moment in my life, for helping me learn copywriting and trying to teach me about SEO. I say tried because I basically refused. Despite myself, I did absorb some critically useful stuff. I’m grateful.

Every week, I send you a

Sunday Love Letter

I write them so that…

  1. You remember your life-changing, culture-making power
  2. You have the inspiration + tools you need to bring something new to the world
Are you in?

There are 3 potent, money-making content shifts that can take you from posting for the sake of posting to posting to SELL...

....because there’s a precise framework built into posts that actually convert (and most of entrepreneurs are not using it).

This protocol is what I teach in my Social Money & Name It Money trainings AND in my high-proximity spaces, and it’s the reasons my clients go from spinning out on social media & spending months courting leads who are on the fence, to seeing their clients sign up on the spot from the power of one precisely designed post.

And when your post on social media actually make you money day in and day out, it’s a lot harder to hate it. (10/10 recommend). DM me for details.
Hating social media is NOT the problem. 

Pseudo-selling IS.

RELATED: My kid was pushing the vacuum back & forth but the floor wasn't getting cleaner. 

I call that “pseudo-vacuuming”…

which is what happens when you don’t correct a process that isn't working (like, say, stopping to empty the filter), which makes it seem like the stupid vacuum is broken and I’m the pickiest mother ever, GAWD…

I digress.

I used to do the same thing in my business: PSEUDO-SELLING.

In other words, I was posting A LOT on social media without increasing sales, so then I posted even more, hoping that volume was the trick…

But pseudo-selling was the real culprit, and it’s the reason you’re:

🚩Giving away your best ideas on social media & endlessly teaching free webinars hoping it will generate sales (but it doesn't)

🚩Pouring massive energy into launches that do initially do well but then decline

🚩Wasting MONTHS throwing spaghetti-messages at the wall, hoping something will stick, instead of knowing precisely what to say to get clients to sign up on the spot 

Here are the 3 ESSENTIAL content corrections that fix this, fast:

✅️Figure out what your client actually wants to buy. Hand to god, 99% of entrepreneurs struggling with sales don’t know what their clients actually want to buy, IN THE CLIENT’S WORDS. (Don't feel bad, it's universal). That’s why I developed the Speak Client So You Get Clients System: so you can uncover what your client actually wants to buy and then successfully SELL IT TO THEM

✅️Use the *The Systematize It Wordbank & Protocol* to translate the names of every single tool you teach into ones that that get your clients throwing their credit cards at you because these are EXACTLY the solutions they’re looking for

✅️Template your success by building your irresistible new names & unmissable client language into reusable blocks of sales copy that convert readers into buyers & offers into REVENUE

That’s the work I do in both The Name It Money Framework & Social Money and it’s the reason my clients stop pseudo-selling and start generating non-stop sales without being tethered to their laptops, hating social media, or living on Instagram 24/7. DM me for info