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Influences | Books

As Lianne Raymond says

These are my teachers, “known and unknown” (meaning they don’t necessarily know me nor would they necessarily agree with everything I say or do — and vice versa — but at critical points in my career, their work has fed me and become part of my flesh):

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Here are some of people + books who have

grown me:

Dr. Barbara Bryant Solomon:

Whose social and academic work on black empowerment appears to be  one of the first articulations of “empowerment”; her textbook has been my touchstone.

Mr. Beech:

Who was the first teacher in my life to show me the gap between our democratic goals as a country and the harsh, oppressive realities (I did not take it kindly and I’m still mortified at my 14 year old self).

Lianne Raymond:

For being a wise woman who knows things and has always sent resources my way and greeted me with compassion even when she doesn’t agree with my thinking or work.

Danielle LaPorte:

For seeing something in me nine years ago and championing me privately and publicly on before anyone knew of me or my work; and for materially helping me get started, online. I still get business because of her early support — and the significance of one woman using her influence and sharing her knowledge to help another woman develop a sovereign, sustainable livelihood can never be underestimated.

Dr. Lindo Bacon:

For their life-altering books, Health at Every Size and Body Respect (co-authored with Lucy Aphramor) and unending personal + professional generosity. HAES helped me stop hating myself and for this I am truly grateful.

Dr. Barbara Arniel:

For hiring me to be her research assistant while I was still an undergrad (!!) and mentoring me even before I realized that mentoring was a thing.

Toi Smith:

For her expert Online Business Management, her influence on the direction of my career, her unwavering friendship, and her capacity to be direct and say what needs to be said. That’s love and culture-making in action.

Gwynn Raimondi:

For opening me to the possibility of embodiment and helping me regulate my central nervous system on the daily and ESPECIALLY in times of trial (2017 was an unrelenting, 12 month inferno).

Jennifer McClanahan-Flint:

For coaching me into new culture making possibilities, for underlining the value in my analysis and the book I’m working on, forcing me to look at how many hours I *really* have available to work so that I finally saw the necessity of shifting my business model and raising my rates. What I learned with her emboldened me immeasurably in my culture making AND tripled my business income in a year.

Anna North:

For publishing me at Jezebel and Salon and being a possibility model in the professional world of words.

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Vicki Saunders, CV Harquail, Meghna Majmudar, Tanya Geisler, Pam Singh, Astarte Sands, Justine Musk, Dr. Danusia Malina-DerbenUna de Boer

For being points-of-inspiration, friends, or mentors along the way– in person and from afar.

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Thinkers, writers, speakers — culture makers! — whose ideas have formed me:

Chantal Mouffe, Rene Girard, Audre Lorde, bell hooks, Gloria Steinem, Ta-Nehisi Coates, Nassim Nicholas Taleb, Nancy Fraser, Carol Pateman, James Clear, Cal Newport, Tim Ferriss, Maya Angelou, Rebecca Solnit, Kate Harding, Marianne Kirby,  Roxane Gay, Dr. Kimberle Crenshaw, Tema Okun and Kenneth Jones,  adrienne maree brown, Sarah Schulman, Lindy West, Susan Faludi, Cedar Barstow.

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Can magazines be formative influences?

Because they have been:

Ms. Magazine and the early iteration of Sassy. But especially Ms. Magazine, my friend and feminist mentor since I was eleven years old.

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As a possibility model. I often say I was co-parented by Oprah and I’m only half-joking. I feel like I grew up with her show and it shaped me. Of course, like most of the “unknown teachers” on this list, she has no idea I exist. Yet.

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S. Lawrence, S. Kelly, A. Young, J. Neufeld and F. Rostant:

For their love across the years. 

Dr. David Doolin:

For his friendship at a pivotal moment in my life, for helping me learn copywriting and trying to teach me about SEO. I say tried because I basically refused. Despite myself, I did absorb some critically useful stuff. I’m grateful.

Every week, I send you a

Sunday Love Letter

I write them so that…

  1. You remember your life-changing, culture-making power
  2. You have the inspiration + tools you need to bring something new to the world
Are you in?

Pro tip: Stop selling programs and start selling your proven process for getting RESULTS. ⁠
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Because people buy proven processes for getting results, not programs. (And not messages!!!!)⁠
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Which means you need to articulate your method -- your proven process -- for getting results and named it out with language that speaks CLIENT not COACH so that your client knows, instantly, that you’ve got what they want.⁠
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When that happens, more of them buy faster, easier and more frequently.⁠
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Which, obviously, makes a massive difference in your sales, your profitability, your business and your life.⁠
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Here’s how you make this life-altering switch in your business:⁠
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1) Forensically investigate and uncover what your client actually wants to buy. (A lot of us are so in love with our subject matter that we lose track of what the client actually wants and how to talk to them!)Then use those revelations & intel to develop precise, irresistible, jargon-free language. I'll show you how to use the *Speak Client so You Get Clients System* to do exactly that so you can turn your readers into buyers and your offers into REVENUE.⁠
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2) Surface your result-making method (and you definitely have one, even if you think you operate in response to a client or intuitively). This is especially crucial if the work you do is internal & non-quantifiable because that's how your client knows you’re NOT a risk and you’re NOT winging it and it becomes safer & easier to buy from you. Repeatedly :)⁠
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3) Systematically name out every step & tool in your method with hell-yes let-me-buy-it-right-now language. I can teach you how to use the *Find the Right Words to Make Righteous Money Framework* so that you can make sure your client knows, at every step, that they’re getting closer to the outcome they wanted to buy in the first place.⁠
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This the work I do with you in my 1:1 VIP Days and in my Surface Your Methodology Mastermind and it’s the reason that my clients are able to surface their revenue-boosting proven process -- their methodology! -- that gets them unstuck and into money-making momentum in as little as one session with me.⁠
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DM me for details.
90% of the time your messaging problem isn't really a messaging problem at all.

It's a methodology problem and it's the reason your sales are stuck and you're not getting the attention or revenue you know your excellent work deserves.

When you're perpetually in a battle to write hot copy for yourself and it isn't getting easier or better no matter how much you learn; or it is a constant struggle to find yet another copywriter and then actually love the copy they write, the problem isn't the writing or the writer.

The reason it's been damn-near impossible to nail your authentic sales-boosting message is because the underlying pieces that the copy is trying to explain - your named-out process for getting results - are missing.

If it was just about finding the right words and messaging, then professional copywriters wouldn't have this problem, too.

BUT THEY DO.

Ask any professional copywriter: this is an ONGOING and routine copy-block. When pieces of the client's process are missing then the writer has to suggest or invent ways to fill in the gaps...
...which is totally out of scope and one of the reasons a messaging project can fail. 

I LOVE COPYWRITERS and they can be pure jet fuel for your business...
...but they cannot write successful copy for you if your process is unclear or pieces of your business are missing.

If you've ever spent eons writing new copy for yourself and then been disappointed that your revenue didn't jump as a result, then you've already experienced this unclear-method=unclear-message business block first-hand.

*New messaging does not solve a methodology problem* 

This is the work I do with you in my high-proximity spaces and in my Surface Your Methodology Mastermind.

I have a proven step-by-step process that reveals your method (and I promise you have one) and then messages it in a way that inspires your client to say yes and sign up NOW instead of ten months from now.

AND ensures that you finally land your client-converting, money-making, unmissable message with absolute precision & conviction.
DM me for details about my Surface Your Methodology Mastermind or 1:1 VIP days in Merida, Mexico (you see the pics!)
When you are starting out, trying things and iterating is GOLD. Ad-hocking and getting in motion are how we figure out what the business is.

And then there comes a time when you’ve accumulated so many ad-hoc services and programs and clients that your results become random, too. 

That usually coincides with the moment you want to uplevel and breakthrough and stop working so hard for unpredictable results.

You don’t solve that problem by doing more or trying all the latest marketing trends.

You solve it by cleaning out the garage of all the business clutter and forensically designing a business model that delivers you exactly what you’re envisioning.

Clients that sign up right away rather than 7 months from now. Clients who do the work. Knowing precisely how to price and position yourself instead of wondering what to say in your content or fretting about social media being a time-suck.

Let’s pinpoint the precise sales activities that work for you —your bespoke sales engine — and make an actual business and marketing plan. One that works. By design, not happenstance.

This is the work I do in my high-proximity spaces and in the Bespoke mastermind I teach with the incomparable Danielle Cohen. DM me for details.