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confessions about “calling in”

By Kelly Diels / December 20, 2016 / 0 Comments

Calling In is a refinement conversation we have with people who have a documented history of doing intersectional justice work — not for people who don’t.

The Body, Stored Stress, and The Politics of Resentment

By Kelly Diels / December 10, 2016 / 1 Comment

The politics of resentment isn’t about stored stress, but it is about the body. It’s about which bodies deserve rights and resources.

The Patriarchal Promise, Part 1

By Kelly Diels / December 8, 2016 / 0 Comments

The Patriarchal Promise means being in the possession of an abundant livelihood, influence, respect, a beautiful subservient woman and her sexuality (or several), and a family.  In your sphere, whether it be public or private, you are the authority and you are owed not only respect but deference. (Indeed, when patriarchs express distress because they don’t […]

Getting Naked, Getting Paid, and Empowerment AKA It’s NOT Only About Your Intentions

By Kelly Diels / November 28, 2016 / 0 Comments

Just because a woman who has what a lot of us want tells us what she does is empowering doesn’t make it so. Discerning between impact and intentions is key.

The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand: A Definition

By Kelly Diels / October 29, 2016 / 0 Comments

The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand is an archetype women must comply with to get rights and resources AND a marketing strategy leveraging social status.

“The Perfect Woman” is a form of Violence Against Women

By Kelly Diels / October 13, 2016 / 1 Comment

When we encourage or teach other women (or ourselves) to be The Perfect Woman, we are doing harm. The Perfect Woman is a form of violence against women.

I’m Bored with Beauty and Body Love. I’d like to be Body Neutral.

By Kelly Diels / September 2, 2016 / 1 Comment

If I don’t hate myself then I don’t struggle to love myself, you know? I don’t want body love. I want to be free to be body neutral.

Ivanka Trump is Calling All White Women

By Kelly Diels / July 22, 2016 / 2 Comments

The Trump campaign is using Ivanka’s “feminism,” and the language and promise of women’s liberation to advance and perpetuate injustice and a racist agenda.

On Not Getting It and the Stay-Safe Sequence

By Kelly Diels / July 10, 2016 / 1 Comment

The stay-safe sequence isn’t news to black people. This is my husband and my son and I still didn’t get it. I was complicit. No More.

keep your love and light, we want justice

By Kelly Diels / July 9, 2016 / 3 Comments

When “Love and Light” is proposed by spiritual leaders as an appropriate response to DEATH and discrimination, I name it for what it is: white privilege.