FLEB: Results

KELLY COLLAGE_Female Empowerment Brand

The Female Lifestyle

Empowerment Brand

(It's not a good thing.)

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What is Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand? ⁠(FLEB)⁠

START HERE → She's The Perfect Woman, in the form of a business...
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FLEB Marketing Tactic #1 Fake Authority

Day 1 of How To Spot a Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand (FLEB).⁠⠀ If...
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FLEB Marketing Tactic #2 Fake Scarcity

Day 2 of How To Spot a Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand (FLEB).⁠⠀ If...
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FLEB Marketing Tactic #3 Male Approval

Day 3 of How To Spot a Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand (FLEB).⁠⠀ If...
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FLEB Marketing Tactic #4 Predatory Payment Plans

Day 4 of How To Spot a Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand (FLEB).⁠⠀ If...
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FLEB Marketing Tactic #5 Weaponized White Femininity

Day 5 of How To Spot a Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand (FLEB).⁠⠀ If...
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FLEB Marketing Tactic #6 Relentless Positivity and Conflict Avoidance

Day 6 of How To Spot a Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand (FLEB).⁠⠀ If...
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FLEB Marketing Tactic #7 Re-enforces Gender Binary & Patriarchy

Day 7 of How To Spot a Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand (FLEB).⁠⠀ If...
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FLEB Marketing Tactic #8 Safe Status Quo Imagery

Day 8 of How To Spot a Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand (FLEB).⁠⠀ If...
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FLEB Marketing Tactic #9 Social Triggers = Social Conditions

This is Day 9 of How To Spot a Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand...
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FLEB Marketing Tactic #10 Testimonials as Triggers

This is Day 10 of How To Spot a Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand...

This page includes my definition of The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand + all my essays and blog posts explaining why it’s bad for women, our businesses and our culture.

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Definition:

A "perfect woman" archetype must comply with and embody in order to be deserving of rights and resources

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A marketing strategy that leverages social status and white privilege to create authority over other women.

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In Our Culture

Every Woman Is a Brand

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The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand. An introduction.

Somewhere, on the edge of consciousness, there is what I call a mythical norm, which each one of us within our hearts knows “that is not me.” In America, this norm is usually defined as white, thin, male, young, heterosexual, Christian, and financially secure. -...

Featured posts

Ixtapa, Mexico + John Rawls + No Pedi. Unthinkable now, right?

#tbt Toes in the Sand but NO PEDI. Also, The Beauty Myth then and now.

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Feminism, Femininity and The Swinging Pendulum. A Question for You.

The Context for The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brrand

Not Enough Compensation in the World

July 10 2017

A quick note about critique vs trashing and accountability vs gossip

As I’m writing out my definition of – and problem with – The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand, here’s my intention: to name and investigate a social phenomena ...

July 10 2017

Let’s Get Off This Ride and Get Justice

A few days after Eric Garner's killers were not indicted in New York City, a very big Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand sent an email. She knew ...

July 10 2017

Me and The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand. The Personal Backstory.

A long, long time ago -- like, 4-8 years ago; the jurassic era, online -- I was trying to be fabulous online. I was writing clever blog ...

May 8 2017

Reinventing the Online Summit

You know those problematic Online Summits? Here's a non-exploitative, successful, feminist model for launching one (while staying in alignment with your social justice principles!) I want ...

March 28 2017

How To Sell Without Selling Out Your Principles

There once was a radical commercial full of righteous body diversity that seemed to be a fist in the air for intersectional feminism, except that ...

January 11 2017

The Language of Activism, Feminism and Revolution is Not For Sale

I wrote a post a while back about some egregious marketing "don'ts" that I think are important for conscious, change-making entrepreneurs to reject and do ...
The Patriarchal Promise

December 8 2016

The Patriarchal Promise, Part 1

The Patriarchal Promise means being in the possession of an abundant livelihood, influence, respect, a beautiful subservient woman and her sexuality (or several), and a ...

November 28 2016

Getting Naked, Getting Paid, and Empowerment AKA It’s NOT Only About Your Intentions

A while ago Danielle LaPorte posted an update on Facebook about how Kim Kardashian's naked eff-you selfie with a similarly naked professional model was not, in ...
The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand

October 29 2016

The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand: A Definition

I'm writing a book about The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand and every Sunday I send a newsletter working through it (this essay started out as ...
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October 13 2016

“The Perfect Woman” is a form of Violence Against Women

pssst...this essay is related to the book I'm writing about The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand. If you'd like to learn more about the phenomenon and ...

Every week, I send you a

Sunday Love Letter

I write them so that…

  1. You remember your culture-making power
  2. You have the inspiration + tools you need to grow a future in which we all flourish
Are you in?

Dear Fat Girl*,⁠
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Go ahead and get the photos.⁠
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Treat yourself like a work of art.⁠
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🌺Because you are.🌺⁠
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love + justice,⁠
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*and anyone whom our dominator culture has silenced, shamed, excluded, punished and discriminated against. We belong here, too. xoxo⁠
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⁠PS if you're ready to be unapologetic about what you want and what you need from your business, I encourage you to check out BESPOKE. link in bio @kelly.diels⁠
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#feministselfie #fatliberation #fatacceptance #fatshion #bodypositivity #feministaf #feminist #WeAreTheCultureMakers #wwfkd #girlboss #bossbabe #creativebusiness #womenentrepreneurs #visibility #takeupspace #womensempowerment ⁠
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Yes, we can learn so much from the examples of people who’ve done innovative, enduring, culture-changing work...

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The examples of iconic culture makers can also be object lessons in what NOT to do in our work and world we’re co-creating.

Don’t let the optics (esp of righteousness) do the thinking for us. 

#chanel #thenewlook #dior 
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Yesterday I wrote that you might not need a HUGE list to accomplish your revenue goal for 2024, and walked you through you a quick calculation for figuring out the actual list size you need.⁠
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Today I want to follow up on that...⁠
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What comes after the calculation? ⁠
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Planning + Doubling Down.⁠
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Now that you know the list number you need,(#putanumberonit), it's time to make a specific plan for achieving it. ⁠
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That means devising a daily and quarterly plan of activities.⁠
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🌺 What activities currently add people to your list? ⁠
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1)	Make sure those activities include a call to action. (Eg put your newsletter link in your link tree, add hemlines to all your posts reminding people to sign up to your newsletter)⁠
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2)	Double down on the ones that work for you. (Eg If Instagram works, post a specific “Hey! I have a newsletter!” post 1-3X a week and go Live in your Stories more; if blog posts work, publish more blog posts and add content upgrades to them; if live appearances work, host more in-person events, go on more podcasts and virtual events…)⁠
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🌺 Put list-building events on your calendar every quarter⁠
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Is there one event you could implement each quarter to add a couple hundred people (or couple thousand) to your list? (Eg challenges, free webinars, online summits…)⁠
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Yes, List-building IS revenue building…⁠
and no, you might not need that big of a list to achieve your goal revenue. ⁠
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And list-building doesn't happen by itself. ⁠
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It's not about posting and hoping people sign up. It's about creating quarterly events and daily invitations so that people DO sign up.⁠
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So...what's your plan?⁠
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What are the daily invitations you're going to issue?⁠
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What are the quarterly events you'll schedule?⁠
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I'm Kelly Diels and I'm a business coach for culture-makers. Putting your business model & essential systems in place is one of the things you'll work on in BESPOKE, the 4-month intensive I teach with Danielle Cohen. link in bio @kelly.diels to learn more⁠
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#listbuilding #LetsGetPractical #contentmarketing #emailmarketing⁠